This is the official attire for the bride waktu Majlis Berbedak..Usually this event is held the nite before Majlis bersanding..Usually its Friday nite lah..I think kat Mesia, u will call it Malam berinai..

Majlis will end with picture taking with the bride and groom..

Ada lagi few more majlis which is Majlis bersuap-suapan and pemotongan kek which is held on the nite of Majlis Persandingan..

The groom will stay at the bride's house for 3 days and after dat, Majlis Muleh will be done..

Muleh means balik whereby its the bride's turn to go back to stay overnite at groom's house. This is a small event attended by family memebers jer..

takde lah nak kenduri besar..but the bride and groom akan berpakaian pengantin...

That we have done for my niece on last Wednesday nite..

I feel ni lah hari yang paling mengerunkan whereby we as newly-wedded woman will have to potray our best behaviour depan family sang suami..

Im glad i didnt went thru Muleh 3 hari...hehehehe...

I only bring him to my sis' place waktu upacara potong kek cos Darwish ni tersangat lah ligat...

Dah lah badan mengalahkan budak 3 tahun...

Tak boleh tengok anggur..He just love it...

Songkok tu belongs to my cuz who is in his mid 20's..

Kemana jer darwish, mesti ader adengan camni..

Kena kidanp,peluk and cium...

Main paksa lak tu..huhu...

Wat to do,kan....Dah gebu and cute..Sapa pun geram....kwang3x...

Wah...Lama banget gue ngak update....Macam dah pencen lak...Sori uols..I am so busy gaban with the new academic semester..Coordinating my 76 students wif timetables,invited speakers for lectures,meetings of exam results and not forgetting preparing those so-lousy lesson notes of my lectures..

This semester im teaching 2 modules i.e Nursing Life Science and Nursing Management....The first one is something i never really like and the latter one is so very new to me.Stress ku cos Im really feeling inconfident in teaching botyh modules..There you go some good challenges this semester..Need to burn off extra brain cells that seem quite limited...Hentam jer lah..Dah gaji tu diberi mmg utk buat keja,buat je lah..DONT WHINE!! Nak sgt gaji 3k kan..ambik ko...tido pun masih ingat kan keja...

Well,since i cant really complain bout work(cos sumer org keja gak kann everyone pun mmg ader workload yg melambak and still got time to blog),im taking this boring nite to update me blog...

Last weekend weols gi jemputan kawin..My 1st cuz's daughter got married..I didnt take much pics cos i wudnt be bothered lah..Ntah apahal...my fingers dah tak segatal dulu tuk ambik gambar..Maybe my fingers ni nak camera Sony T900 tu kot..baru ader semangat utk blogging.(click link on previous post)

PS: Bah syg,balikan tah alai camera atu..Kalau tak T900,T90 pun jadik lah...



So here i am wif the latest pic..Tapi side view jer ....Ni dah mcm rasa boring nih..Dah takde bahan gossip to share wif my sis..Oh yes,those 2 beautiful ladies are my older sis...DIfferent moms but same dad..

Nilah my 2 older sis..Pengiran Juliana(in blue) and Pengiran Noharati(in black/grey)..Mamat 2 org kat belakang tu lak bukan main lagi control ayu..Tau ker dorang tu yg weols ambik gmbar..I bet dorang 2 ni tak tau muka dorang akan termashur masuk blog ni..huhuhu..Fremos yaw sampai ke Semenanjung Malaysia and even GermanY(kan kan,Yanti..heheheh)


Ni lah tghe bride..Kabur lak pic ni..Walaupun kabur,but she still look so gorgeous.Dier ni campuran omputih..Her name is Jessie Lina..Cantik nama...napa lah Auntie Noy dier tak secantik ni,kan....



Memang secocok..The groom ni nmpak mcm Omputih,kan..tapi actually he's a Malay..Garry bin Hj Ibrahim

Ni lah penyanyi jemputan tengahari tu...DATO JEFFRYDIN...Emm..Not really my favourite singer..I dont know if its the sound system or his voice,but i cant really hear wats he's singing..Kurang lontaran suara kot...wawawa...Akadeni Fantasia sikit...



Ni lah my niece yg rajin ambik gambar...Dayangku Nurhaziyah..Tq,lai....
Napa ia kabur pics ah..Lain kali bykkan pics Aunti Noymk.hehehehe


Petang tu,weols attend Tahlil umah my other sis lak..My other elder sis is Pengiran Lina..Yang paling tua is Norharati and the youngest is Lina...

Mamat yang handsome ni lak is adik bungsu to my 3 older sis..Pengiran Asmy..And the sweet girl is his daughter,Dayangku Jasmin..Ensem,kan..Available ni... Ada ke yang berkenan..hehehe

And this is my beloved parents..Pengiran Hj Ismail & Hjh Hamidah...Very loving couple...Siap pegang tangan tu..Weols turun quite steep driveway to our car and mama tak confident nak turun driveway tu..Tu yang kena jalan so slowly and kepala pun kena tunduk..

Its not alwez for me to meet my sis..Waktu ader jemputan jer and kalau ader family function...But we definitely are in good terms though weols have different mothers...Hope the family ties ni will last till eternity..Amin...

Okay..this is the updated plan of my family trip to KL..Well not entirely the complete plan,just the place to stay..Sheikh Khalid of Arab Families has suggested the his fren's apartment at Times Square..That will definitely be considered.But while dat, i have called these 2 hotel to make my reservation..

We will arrive on the Thursday 2nd July and up till Saturday 4th July,i have booked to stay at Bintang Warisan Hotel at Bukit Bintang..

• 1 superior triple (1 double bed & 1 single bed) with view of Jln Bukit Bintang
  
• 1 Standard King-sized bedroom that faces KLCC and the Twin Towers..
• For the 3 nights stay, it will cost around RM$1020...

Next stay is at One World Hotel..I had quite a dilemma choosing either Sunway Resort/Hotel or One World..After thorough thinking,i reckoned my parents wont be joining me,Izad and sis for the dip at the Sunway Lagoon..And thats no fun..So i will wait till next year to bring my parents to stay at Sunway Resort..By next year, i can bring Darwish and Batrisyia and that will be more merrier..


So,the rooms that i have booked are :

• Deluxe plus(2 queen sized beds) costing RM$390
• Deluxe King size bed RM$365

I love One World Hotel becos its near to my favorite shopping center ie One Utama or O U...Not many Bruneians have reach here..Its becos of the distance from KL..But Izad has brought me to this place 4 years ago and it was LOVE AT FIRST VISIT.. There was so may restaurants to choose from..And shopping outlets too..I just cant wait to go there..I never stayed at One World Hotel before,so having to stay there,i can just rest at the hotel and doing visits to the shopping outlets regularly..

Rest,Eat Nandos, shop...Rest,Eat TGI,shop..
ahh..Bliss...

Hope my parents will like my choices..I know i do..

Tadi subuh , ithink at 5.45am, Mama woke me up..Actually i dah bangun cos Darwish wants his milk..Mama panic and gtau dat hidung babah berdarah 'kucur kucur' tak berenti nearly 1 hour..

I masuk bilik babah and saw 1 whole towle dah soaked with blood..and the blood drom his nose is flowing fast...I pinched his nose and instructed him not to look downAfter few minutes of pinching, the blood still keep on flowing fast and the 3rd towel is partially soaked with blood.He started to vomit clotted blood.Before he become weak due to the loss of blood,we brought him to the Accident and Emergency Unit.

Good thing im very familiar with the nurses at the A&E unit cos most of them are my mates and ex students from Nursing College..They allowed me with my Babah in the Trauma room..

His BP(blood pressure) was on the high side..It was around 200/130mm Hg and eventually goes down slightly to 190/110..The doctor gave him Norvasc tablet to help reduce the BP..After nearly 2 hours of resting in the day room,Babah was discharged.

When bleeding like dat occurs,especially to elderly like my Babah,things that shud be consider are trauma injuries and hypertension..We are really scared that the very high pressure might cause CVA..Nauzubillah

Babah has been asleep till now..Its 1.40pm already..The rest will do him good..

Anyway,below are some tips on first aid of nose bleed

Today is Mama's Bday.Her name is Hjh Hamdiah bte Seruji..She was born in Miri Sarawak about 64 years ago..Her Mama is a Sarawakian and Her babah originates from Kelantan
So today,we will be having a mini family gathering with close relatives..
Lunch menu : Sop Kaki Ayam(Family's favourite dish)
Dinner Menu : Steamboat Tom Yam

Do you think i look like her?I think i do,but my Babah gtau i look like him..Whatever,as long i dont look like any other strangers



This woman is such a patient wife and mother..She went thru alot throughout her marriage life..But with her patience and endurance,she battled lots of pain and challenges..



She taught me alot of being a good daughter and a devoted wife.We have a bond that not all mother-daughter have..She was the person who supported me the most when it come to me and Izad..Tq for accepting me as I am..I love u and i know deep inside, u love me the most..

In few weeks time,weols nak gi KL for our family vacation..Me,Izad,Babah,Mama and my sis..Im starting to worry cos i havent book any hotel for our stay..Izad dah settle bout our car rental.(click link on previous post)..




Yet i need to stop worrying cos it doesnt help much..I need to plan as soon as possible and call up the hotels to book for rooms..






So we will be going on the 2nd July and balik Brunei via Miri on the 7th July.So i need to find a reasonable yet comfortable hotel for my family..
Ni weols yg sponsor for both hotel and transport.Hopefully budget mencukupi...


I have to keep on reminding myself that dulu waktu budak2,my dad always bring us for family vacation and he will pay for EVERYTHING.Hotel,food,transport and even give us money to spent..So fair deal dat i traet him this time..


This are few of the hotel that we might stay..

Sampai je KL on the 2nd,we will stay at Bintang Warisan Hotel kat Bintang Walk..I think it cost around RM$140/room..Since weols will arrive in the evening,so this hotel will do..I think its a 3 star hotel..Stayed here during Pre-Hari Raya last year..Not bad lah..

Next is Berjaya Times Square Hotel but i have no definite idea the cost of the room..Blog buddies,dapat tak tolong tanyakan for me..I never stay at this hotel before,so has no idea how it looks like..We will stay here on the 3rd July..But it depends..If babah is ok wif Bintang Warisan,then we might not move to Berjaya Times Square..

During the weekend i.e 6th July,we will stay at Nobel Hotel kat Masjid India..Ni weols think nak jenjalan kat Masjid India and enjoy the Pasar Malam Minggu..1 whole day will be spent here..

Sunday we will definitely stay at Sunway Resort..Ni for relaxation purposes..I dont think by this day my parents will want to shop..So its relaxing time..I really love the scenary at this place..Not much of the shopping center cos i prefer to shop at One Utama..One Utama ni ada hotel tak?I love One Utama..Food center and shopping mall byk kat One Utama..Tapi the trouble bout One Utama is dat its quite far from central KL..






So now i need to find out where to bring my parents..Takkan nak shopping memanjang,kan..

Baru jer dapat gaji last 27th and starting to worry...i really have to save budget cos early july will be bringing parents to KL.

at the moment,my simpanan for the trip is only BND$3k.belum cukup tu cos im thinking to giving my dad 2k.i owe him around BND$8k..i have paid BND$2k waktu bonus last december..trip ni nak byr BND$2k to him..so tinggal BND$4k..before raya this year,i'll pay up the BND$4k to him..he never ask for us to pay back but i dont feel good owing my parents..

for the trip,me and izad will sponsor on the hotel and the transport.will rent a van and that will cost around RM1k..hotel senang sikit cos dapat pakai mastercard.keta sewa tu kena lak pakai cash..Damn!Bday darwish lak on 20th June,so maybe cant celebrate it this june..maybe on end of july..Kesian darwish..takpe k darwish...next year mama will celebrate ur bday with grand,insya Allah..

So now need to make arrangements for the trip..we will be goin on Thursday 2nd July and balik on Monday 6th July.Kena make careful arrangements as this is the first time bawa Babah for holiday trips since i starting working.

I got around Bnd$7k in my HSBC mastercard.Hopefully that is enuf for the trip..Really want to spoilt my parents.Im thinking of subscribe a credit card for Babah atleast around Bnd3k credit limit..Either he can have a complimentary card under my name or better still he owns his own credit card and i can be the guarantor.Lets see how it goes..